I believe that normal Gaussian distribution is valid for human society - there are more intelligent, more beautiful, more successful and generally better people in comparison with others, and there are losers. It is valid for both, Women and men, as well as for every area of human endeavor. And simple conclusion is that some Women are superior to some men and it determines their social contacts.
We can see natural leaders among Women in every community. A masochist in me adores beautiful, strong, proud, confident and somewhat arrogant Women, looks to them as superior beings and feels urgency to serve them. Does it make me a loser?
In the eyes of most people yes. There are certain "rules" our society adheres to when it comes to dating, relationship, marriage. For majority it is unacceptable to go against these norms. But I hope there are self-confident Women ready to accept supportive and in certain areas submissive spouse, looking for long-term, balanced and loving relationship.